A dictionary defines tact as “the ability to appreciate the delicacy of a situation and to do or say the kindest or most fitting thing.” The word originally referred to touch. Just as sensitive fingers can perceive if something is sticky, soft, polished, hot, or hairy, so a tactful person can sense the feelings of other people and can discern how his words or actions affect them. But doing this is not just a skill; it involves a genuine desire to avoid hurting others.
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Anger – Friend Or Foe?
What is your immediate bodily response to even reading the word ‘anger’? Your thoughts and feelings about it stem from your own personal experiences of anger, plus what you have heard or read about it too. We see anger exist in a wide spectrum of behaviors, from an irritated person’s foot/finger-tapping – right through to violent and destructive rage where people and/or property gets damaged.
Modern life is often highly stressful. In many people this stress can build up and manifest in the form of anger. Of course, it is perfectly normal, indeed healthy, to be angry sometimes. However, when anger begins to define a person, it becomes a lot more damaging, not just to the person who is suffering from anger, but all the people that surround that person.
Honouring and Nurturing Your Self
We spend so much of our time focussing on issues, people and things outside of ourselves, that we often ignore our own needs. Simply giving yourself a little loving attention is a beautiful way to affirm your self-worth.
Many people use the New Year as a time to examine their lives and decide what to give up. Here is an alternative approach. Why not start the New Year with some positive resolutions?
5 Tips to Be Angry in the Most Positive Way
Everyone has to be angry sometimes. In fact, it is important to be angry when it is needed otherwise things that are not supposed to happen will happen. Being angry that I am talking about here is being angry in a productive and positive way.
The inability to keep anger from overwhelming your better judgment and leading you towards anti-social behavior can be put to an end with the help of an anger management hypnosis mp3 download. This is a great alternative treatment method for anger issues; it is as effective as it is affordable and it saves you time on having to make regular visits to a therapist’s office. It is also very safe to use since it is a completely natural process that poses no threat of negative side effects.
The holidays are an especially stressful time of year and knowing a few anger management techniques to help you cope may come in handy. This article provides some suggestions on how to keep cool and make your holiday merry!
How to Change a Belief
“Whether you think you can or you think you can’t, you’re right.” The above is a statement that I have seen attributed to both Henry Ford and Confucius.
6 Positive Affirmations From the Bible
In my last post, we discussed the use of affirmations and in it, I mentioned that Norman Vincent Peale had taken a Biblical text and suggested that it could be used directly as an affirmation. That particular text was from St. Paul’s letter to the Philippians (Ph 4:13).